Let’s stay classy, Fairfield!

Although we have just returned to school to commence the spring semester, I am beginning to think that some students suffer from bouts of amnesia. After running around campus to new classes in different classrooms and buildings all over campus, I began to wonder: where have some students’ manners gone? Not to worry, because everyone should have a little refresher on proper public etiquette.

Is your life so busy that you cannot hold the door open for someone else? If so, lighten up. You’re just a college student! When someone is walking behind you and you are entering a building, let’s say the Campus Center, hold the door open! (Note: If someone is holding the door open for you, remember to say “thanks.”)

This brings me to another etiquette point: since when did saying “please” and “thank you” become overrated? Be a big person and say “Thank you” when a worker swipes your card at the cafeteria or after you receive your package from the mailroom. It could make an employee’s job much easier and he or she may even be more compelled to respond with “You’re welcome.”

Sitting at Jazzman’s recently, I overheard one of my peers talk rather openly about a recent bowel movement. Maybe I’ve been living under a rock, but since when do I want to hear about someone’s bathroom experience? Furthermore, please do not announce to everyone when you need to use the facilities or burp; a simple “excuse me” will do just fine.

Have you ever walked around campus and recognized someone in passing, either from a party, a class or a brief introduction? Although you may unfortunately not remember that person’s name, just be friendly and say “hey.” Even if that person does not acknowledge you back, it is better than being rude and putting your head down to stare at the sidewalk.

Cell phones are both a blessing and a curse. Sure, they can help you in an emergency and are useful for checking up on family and friends. But when waiting in a long line, do other people really need to overhear, “Oh my God! I cannot believe this; can I just tell you how long this line is?” Just pull the cell phone away from your ear for a few minutes and maybe even turn it off when in class to avoid aggravated glares.

We do live in a fast-paced, technology-driven society, but proper etiquette should still be a part of everyone’s lifestyle. If any or all of the above reminders were shocking to you, then start practicing. It is the beginning of a new year, so start minding your manners. Let’s stay classy, Fairfield!